I respect you PT & so does Jared actually, he just might get slightly frustrated at people who go with the flow while JC wants more of a sense of urgency in new hires since the clock is ticking on Luck & he doesn't want INDY to take another step backward. But, I also know my share of coaches kids too & how they are often even keeled, relaxed, & don't expect dramatic changes overnight.
Casual is never a word I would use to describe you. More like thorough, detailed, smart, & a person who doesn't have a compulsion to dominate any thread, topic, or situation. When something needs to be said, you say it, & move on. I admire that because I'm the exact opposite. I'm longwinded & always chime in even when I probably shouldn't.
What I'm trying to say here is this: I respect qualities in others I don't have & you have no reason to feel undercut or dismissed by anyone. We all know how intelligent you are & that you are a loyal Colts fan no question.